We all learn our ABC in the morning of our life and remember it till the end. There is a precise reason behind it. Firstly, we toil a lot to learn it; a labor we never replicate in life. Secondly, there is a league of illustrations to keep us fascinated about the lessons. In this context, lots of learning books keep coming up; with glitzy pages, neat drawings and wonderful little stories for kids.
For instance, take the case of ‘Follow that Fly’, a classic adaptation of ‘A Fly Went By’ by Mike McClintock. In this chillingly original tale, children are taken through a fear session, as the protagonists are terrorized one by one by those bigger in size. A fly flees from a frog who finds a cat repulsive. The progression is on to a dog and then a fox. The little parenting book is a prose version in the fashion of a nursery rhyme and has all the quality of being an all time children classic.
Children are quite impressionable and need to be taught the learning lessons through play and scheme. Such are these books that they enchant even the old guys. From little books on alphabets, animals and fishes to fantastic images of human body parts, children are slowly taken into the journey of what awaits them in future. It has to be said that kindergarten teachers and parents would be at a loss of ideas to impart information on kids without these children’s books.
The best part about these learning books for kids is the art of interaction. These books cut a direct chord with children almost like crossword puzzles keep adult minds busy. There are different kinds of books for kids; sowing proper seeds of maths; creativity and science in kids who cannot even spell these words. They also provide great moral lessons to little minds.
Marriage is not only the world’s oldest institution, but it is also the most cultivated one. It has gone through repeated cross-checks and has faced umpteen hurdles to reach the present stage.
In the Medieval times, men reigned supreme and women took a rather subordinate role in relationships that were based more on financial and political standing than love. Love was in fact thought as a great evil and love-child were almost outcast, to refrain people from fostering relations outside marriage. Women were supposed to get a sense of protection from their husbands and live within their challenged limits.
Only when the Enlightenment came, and the younger generation fought for their right of choice, there was more love in the offing. The problem was that it also created enormous scope for divorce, as was feared. The system prevailed right up to 1960s, where society faced numerous upheavals over rights of legitimacy and love marriage.
In the 1980s, when the water settled down, and the mix of love and arranged marriage somewhat fused into the ambit, it gave rise to a third front, namely to cohabitation. People realized that they could marry only for sex and children, but both did not necessarily require marriage for realization. Women married less in states where divorce was disallowed. And, the whole social stratification changed as the old “male-breadwinner” logic went under the bus, in favor of share expenses that became the norm. In this hullabaloo, marriage took a rough beating.
Stephanie Koontz beautifully puts emphasis on respecting people’s right of choice and decision of remaining single. However, she interprets in her book “Marriage, A History: How Love Conquered Marriage” that those who do get married should make an effort to nurture their relationship by responding to the various bids of attention. For sometimes, even a plain statement by a spouse can dig a hole in his or her heart if it does not get an adequate response.
In the context of marriage and freedom of choice for women to remain single, unmarried or divorced, another excellent book has hit the nail on the head. “Don’t Say I Do! Why Women Should Stay Single” by Orna Gadish is a brilliant perspective on the chances that today’s women have, without marriage. Thanks to the sexual revolution, science and technology of the information age, and corresponding mindsets of society that have been changed, marriage now is just one of the many available options. Almost 47 percent of American women are staying single, as they do not wish to fiddle with an unhappy marriage.
Couples in general, and women in particular, have the choice of cohabiting, or living apart, having a family with children, or enjoying the status of single parent. They vouch for financial and sexual independence in their lives and can explore other relationship options and family structures with more prescience. Marriage, which is on the decline, is no longer a yoke. It is not even a privileged choice. Thanks to upgraded changes, the modern woman can now look forward to breathing under a free Sun, where she has got the freedom of choice, love and expression. Both books carry a significant message for modern women and drive the point home with a bang.
They suggest that the easiest way to catch an audience is to play on their basic instincts. However, it requires immense control of the pen to hold Erotica interesting throughout an elongated book. There are bound to be stretch marks! One has to accept, though, that E L James has endeavored to take a potent route and delivered with gusto through Fifty Shades of Grey.
The plot is simple; about an undergraduate (Ana Steele) being tapered into submission by a millionaire (Christian Grey); how she begins to fall into the plot; and how her hormonal changes connect with her relations with her best friend (Katherine Kavanagh). The storyline revolves around a bizarre sexual contract that Ana needs to stick to; fringing on the popsicle-territory of BDSM. In between, there are pricey gifts; email communication and that is where James shows his immaculate magnetic writing skills.
Yes, this domain has been intruded and with stark precision before. An analogy can be drawn between the tortured Bill Buffalo and how he turns demonic on busty girls to feed his ego in Silence of the Lambs. Also, in the same book, it was enterprising to discern how Hannibal Lectern laser-scans Clarice Starling’s fears and prejudices through poignant questions and shows her the way out of fear.
Here, Christian Grey has some supposed qualms from his childhood and takes it out on adolescents by being dominant. We stare at a grossly rich fellow who loves to stick to antiquarian measures to torture girls and yet he keeps her savvy with laptop and Audi. The whole environment is of such a crushing confusion that the naïve Ana, definitely not as surefooted as her friend Katherine, is bound to be intimidated.
There is distinct pleasure in being ruled by a powerful authority; it generates more pangs than dominating a weakling. Ana is bought over by the clinical surety with which Christian proceeds; stepping at bars, keeping her away from embarrassment and even spanking her into propriety. At the near-end, Ana even asks to be punished so that she can fully understand the nuance of this dominant game. However, it ends positively for puritans, as Ana leaves Christian to live with Katherine.
The reason behind the book’ popularity is the way it scratches on the bubbling hormonal fears and excitements that the new generation engenders. You want to get off the park and yet you wish to play the games as well. This Catch-22 situation is James’ biggest victory, as Fifty Shades of Grey spills into its sequel.
Yes, it may produce some raised eyebrows, but it is only fair to say that Lodro Rinzler has come up with a remarkable book that changes the perception of lifestyle. The Buddha Walks Into a Bar: A Guide to Life for a New Generation is a ready winner, shaped for the young birds; and exalts the religion into multi-dimensional spheres.
Rinzler weaves his viewpoints in allegorical fashion utilizing the four Shamanic animals, namely, the Tiger, Lion, Garuda and Dragon. All these animals have certain splendid characteristics. The writer brilliantly fuses those traits into general life, suggesting how we can infuse them to achieve the highs in life. He scores high on interest as well, bringing forth icons such as Superman, Wonder Woman and Honey Badger. The maxim that there is good and evil in every guy is brought lucidly into perspective here. The book seeks a pattern whereby we can enjoy our vices but not get carried away by it.
Lord Buddha himself, keeping the steadily vitiating times of His era in mind, preached the Middle Path. His vision encrusted that everything is fair when done in moderation. Lodro perhaps has gone a bit over the top displaying the Western Outlook of Buddhism, where it seems all right to fall into one-night stands and liquor. He just about appears to burn the brides there with his anti-puritanical suggestions, but modulates that with loads of positive attitude that we should inculcate first.
He has a relevant way of how to control anger; he has nowhere denigrated the precepts of Buddhism, as stressed in His eight-fold path. He has also propagated the idea of how to broaden one’s horizon and spread happiness beyond oneself. He has clarity on matters of health, well-being and keeping conflicting emotions at bay. Yes, his evocative writing reflects something of a dressing down for Hinayana, a revered sect of Buddhism; but let’s look at the bigger picture.
Buddha Walks Into a Bar is nothing but an assimilation of His wise thoughts into the current mixed principles. He rakes it subtly that religion and morality are fast taking a back-seat only because the current crop cannot hang to the strict precincts of penance, abstinence and pain.
He insists that we enjoy the daily activities; relish life on a bigger platter and imbibe His teachings with a deeper meaning. So what if we duly celebrate our life with some excesses, the Sky won’t Fall! The book is a must-read, particularly for the new generation.
Society has long protected traditional concepts through institutions such as marriages. Until recently, unmarried women were gazed with suspicion, as if they lacked something. The dynamics have however changed and today you tend to visualize ability more than structure. Women are growing out of tradition-ridden complex and are enjoying the new state of freedom where they merit a choice. Don’t Say I do! Why Women Should Stay Single a new book by Orna Gadish is an illuminating beacon in this sphere.
Truth be told, marriage is no longer the ultimate objective for a woman. Now, she revels more in assessing and imposing her identity. Whether she reaches the stars singly or in cohabitation is altogether her choice. Cultural mores have accepted live-in relations as order of the day. The postmodern woman can look forward to personal space and freedom of self-actualization, independent of how she runs her life. This has given a new lease to unmarried women, divorced ones or those troubled with sickening partners. Gone are the days when women had to stick through thick and thin with their husbands for fear of social stigma. The trend is such that some women are now having kids out of wedlock and enjoying their exhilarated status.
Don’t Say I Do! comes up with anecdotes and true stories of American and Western women who carved their entities and realized their passions while remaining single. This is not to suggest that they abstained from sexual pleasures or deferred to explore other tenets of life. The book verily transcends the lives of single women, unmarried women, unhappily married women, and divorced women to other orbit, where there is enough scope for their financial, physical and psychological independence.
It is notable though, that some unmarried women, specifically in countryside, are still quite bothered about their existence. They cannot open up to the idea of cohabitating with men or to engender physical relationships with men. Hence, Don’t Say I Do Why Women Should Stay Single is a sterling effort into opening a woman’s eyes to the fact that the world now is too busy to bother. Almost half the US marriageable population is relishing their unmarried status; something that was untenable, a few decades ago. As a women seeking self-realization, positive transformation of life, benefiting choices and sea of opportunities available for modern western women, you will get a tremendous positive vibe from reading Don’t Say I Do! Why Women Should Stay Single and will be delighted to note that marriage is no longer the greener pasture. Apparently, this ideal of the fifties has long gone.
As a woman, you will gain in confidence, self-assurance and self-respect, whether you are in a current unstable relationship, an unhappy wedding, or just an unmarried woman by choice or happening—to carry on with your life and lay more emphasis on its dynamics rather than your current conjugal status.
Lay your hand on Don’t Say I Do! Why Women Should Stay Single and get enlightened on choosing the right pattern of life. It’s purely your decision whether to be in a relationship or not, stay single, or get married, cohabitate , create a family, and have and raise children. As a woman, you have the right and choice to engage yourself in procreation or recreation. The puritan rigidity has marvelously relaxed to the degree that women are agenda setters now. A good book is much like an extended idea, and ‘No force on Earth can stop an idea whose time has arrived’. Book your copy from Amazon now, because you deserve this enlightening experience!